For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. - Hebrews 4:15
A pastor, who was trained in trauma and grief counselling, commented that the greatest challenge for people who are hurting is often not the immediate heartache of the loss. Instead, the biggest problem is adjusting to the different kind of life that follows. What once was normal may never be normal again. So the challenge for those offering help is to assist the sufferers as they establish the "new normal". It may be a new normal that no longer includes robust heath, a treasured relationship, or a satisfying job. Or it may be living without a loved one who has been taken in death. The gravity of such losses forces us to live a different kind of life - no matter how unwelcome it may be.
When our "new normal" comes, it's easy to think no one understands how we feel. But that isn't true. Part of the reason Jesus came was to experience life among us, resulting in His present ministry: "For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin".
Our Saviour lived a perfect life, yet He also knew the pains of a broken world. He endured sorrow; He suffered agony. And He stands ready to encourage us when the dark moments of life force us to embrace a new normal.
Father, thank You that in the darkest seasons of life,
You never abandon us. Guide us with Your never-failing presence
through both the welcome and unwelcome changes of life.
In Jesus' name, amen.
In our desert of grief, Jesus can provide an oasis of hope.
Hebrews 4:9-16
There remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God; for anyone who enters God's rest also rests from their works, just as God did from his. Let us, therefore, make every effort to enter that rest, so that no one will perish by following their example of disobedience.
For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. Nothing in all creation is hidden from God's sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must give account.
Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are - yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God's throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
When I get up from the water, I'm a new born person... whatever happened in the past, doesn't matters any more, but I can move on with new strength that's given from God, live a life with His presence... I pray that I can have the wisdom to deal with my "new normal" life... I want to get back what I had with You before, be your lovely girl again~ ^^ I want to forgive whoever it is, that hurts or harmed me before, I pray that God can bless them, as they did it because they cared for me... I have nothing in return but to pray for them...
Exploring to the whole new world for me, is excited and interesting... may You guide me in all my ways, so I don't fall or stray...
A pastor, who was trained in trauma and grief counselling, commented that the greatest challenge for people who are hurting is often not the immediate heartache of the loss. Instead, the biggest problem is adjusting to the different kind of life that follows. What once was normal may never be normal again. So the challenge for those offering help is to assist the sufferers as they establish the "new normal". It may be a new normal that no longer includes robust heath, a treasured relationship, or a satisfying job. Or it may be living without a loved one who has been taken in death. The gravity of such losses forces us to live a different kind of life - no matter how unwelcome it may be.
When our "new normal" comes, it's easy to think no one understands how we feel. But that isn't true. Part of the reason Jesus came was to experience life among us, resulting in His present ministry: "For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin".
Our Saviour lived a perfect life, yet He also knew the pains of a broken world. He endured sorrow; He suffered agony. And He stands ready to encourage us when the dark moments of life force us to embrace a new normal.
Father, thank You that in the darkest seasons of life,
You never abandon us. Guide us with Your never-failing presence
through both the welcome and unwelcome changes of life.
In Jesus' name, amen.
In our desert of grief, Jesus can provide an oasis of hope.
Hebrews 4:9-16
There remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God; for anyone who enters God's rest also rests from their works, just as God did from his. Let us, therefore, make every effort to enter that rest, so that no one will perish by following their example of disobedience.
For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. Nothing in all creation is hidden from God's sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must give account.
Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are - yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God's throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
When I get up from the water, I'm a new born person... whatever happened in the past, doesn't matters any more, but I can move on with new strength that's given from God, live a life with His presence... I pray that I can have the wisdom to deal with my "new normal" life... I want to get back what I had with You before, be your lovely girl again~ ^^ I want to forgive whoever it is, that hurts or harmed me before, I pray that God can bless them, as they did it because they cared for me... I have nothing in return but to pray for them...
Exploring to the whole new world for me, is excited and interesting... may You guide me in all my ways, so I don't fall or stray...