It has been three years since the day I left my hometown KK to Kuching, changes happened and I couldn't recognize even myself at some point. But well, it has all gone and am ready to start the new chapter of my life. But before I move on, I would like to share at here, what I had been through throughout the years.
I was hoping for a uni life that's with excitement and surprise, to add more colors to my youth time. Getting to know people that I don't usually meet and involve in activities that enrich my days even more. Before I depart, i had my birthday wish: I want a boyfriend, and he's gonna be my husband!
That's a declaration i supposed, and yeah i got a boyfriend within a month when i started my degree. Oh well, it wasn't official yet, not technically, but practically. It turned official with FB's relationship status update after 6 months. Those were the sweet days, when i spent my time with my charming prince, day in and out, at library and cafe and in church. It lasted for over a year before he left for Intel.. Long distance dating for another year before we finally realize we're not compatible to each other. Not if it's because there were too many negative thoughts at that time or just simply admit the fact that we don't suit each other.
I didn't had a hard time to overcome the breakup, or I actually did but not realizing it at all? During the year when i was "taken but bf not around", I traveled with friends to various spots for fun. Swimming is my favorite and singing with another friend at night. Time flies, without me notice it.
I proceed with my life normally, going out with friends and less guard of me with boys. At first is like brother and sister, then slowly more contact and often alone with him... Eventually something irreversible happened and thought it could be fun to have some spice for my last few months of uni life. Hence I decided to ignore all the teachings unto me, and began my days without God.
The funny part of both guys is that, they asked me to be their gf on their birthday, as their present. I thought I could be a blessing for them, as much as i care for them, i wish the best for them.. So I begin to get back on track, for a promising future. However, i was way too naive and simple-minded which i forgotten he's a satanist, whom i never expected to meet in my life.
I realized that he has been holding back on me in many aspect, it could be some tiny petty matter but it's gonna turn wild when i insist to do it my way. Soon I realize that am not only failed my God but also my life, which i owe to my mum and my self. Am waking up from deep sleep.
A decision has to be made and certain things got to be reset. Getting out of the mud is not easy especially when it concern about a person's feeling, what more to say he has been a dear friend to me for past 2 years. I seek for balance between him and God but I found none. So I can only be selfish and neglect him in my new life, while praying for God to have mercy on him.
Am now experiencing a break through, not of any simple one but for the new chapter of my life. I desire for a better life, with abundant blessing and overflowing prosperity, that I can share with others. For He has given His words, if we are to obey and trust Him, He will bless us for more than our imagination.
Daddy, here i am, back at home~ <3 p="">
I was hoping for a uni life that's with excitement and surprise, to add more colors to my youth time. Getting to know people that I don't usually meet and involve in activities that enrich my days even more. Before I depart, i had my birthday wish: I want a boyfriend, and he's gonna be my husband!
That's a declaration i supposed, and yeah i got a boyfriend within a month when i started my degree. Oh well, it wasn't official yet, not technically, but practically. It turned official with FB's relationship status update after 6 months. Those were the sweet days, when i spent my time with my charming prince, day in and out, at library and cafe and in church. It lasted for over a year before he left for Intel.. Long distance dating for another year before we finally realize we're not compatible to each other. Not if it's because there were too many negative thoughts at that time or just simply admit the fact that we don't suit each other.
I didn't had a hard time to overcome the breakup, or I actually did but not realizing it at all? During the year when i was "taken but bf not around", I traveled with friends to various spots for fun. Swimming is my favorite and singing with another friend at night. Time flies, without me notice it.
I proceed with my life normally, going out with friends and less guard of me with boys. At first is like brother and sister, then slowly more contact and often alone with him... Eventually something irreversible happened and thought it could be fun to have some spice for my last few months of uni life. Hence I decided to ignore all the teachings unto me, and began my days without God.
The funny part of both guys is that, they asked me to be their gf on their birthday, as their present. I thought I could be a blessing for them, as much as i care for them, i wish the best for them.. So I begin to get back on track, for a promising future. However, i was way too naive and simple-minded which i forgotten he's a satanist, whom i never expected to meet in my life.
I realized that he has been holding back on me in many aspect, it could be some tiny petty matter but it's gonna turn wild when i insist to do it my way. Soon I realize that am not only failed my God but also my life, which i owe to my mum and my self. Am waking up from deep sleep.
A decision has to be made and certain things got to be reset. Getting out of the mud is not easy especially when it concern about a person's feeling, what more to say he has been a dear friend to me for past 2 years. I seek for balance between him and God but I found none. So I can only be selfish and neglect him in my new life, while praying for God to have mercy on him.
Am now experiencing a break through, not of any simple one but for the new chapter of my life. I desire for a better life, with abundant blessing and overflowing prosperity, that I can share with others. For He has given His words, if we are to obey and trust Him, He will bless us for more than our imagination.
Daddy, here i am, back at home~ <3 p="">
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